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#187 Are Other Doctors Really Ahead of You?

Season #1

A house cannot tell you how the people inside it are doing financially.

It just shows you what somebody built. It says nothing about their down payment, their mortgage payment, what goes into their retirement plan, or what is set aside for a nine-year-old's tuition.

For years we drove down to California to see my wife's side of the family, and I spent most of those trips feeling like I was doing something wrong. Every driveway on the street had a brand-new car in it, while we pulled up in a used car we had paid cash for.

Five years into these trips, I finally said something to my wife about it:

"How is everybody driving a new car?"

She looked at me like I had asked why the sky was blue.

"They all have mortgage-sized car payments. They say it's because they're in traffic two hours a day, but really it's just LA's version of keeping up with the Joneses."

I was doing what you are doing now. I looked at the nicest thing I could see and decided everyone was ahead of me.

You are picturing your partners putting a huge chunk down on a multimillion-dollar new build and still investing as much as you do.

That picture is usually wrong.

I have seen the balance sheets of hundreds of physician families, and I can tell you that in most cases, the bigger the house, the smaller the retirement accounts.

Building your dream home without jeopardizing your college fund is still possible. I see families do it responsibly every year. It just usually happens about five years after some of your colleagues.

Setting yourself up for success financially comes from a series of good decisions made over many years. That may not be exciting, but neither is starting every month with a five-figure mortgage payment and nothing left for your future.

The only comparison that matters is you against your own plan.

We also answer your colleagues' questions.

My group offers disability insurance, and I also have a policy I bought in residency. Do I still need both?

I bought Apple stock many years ago, and I want to sell it now that it's at an all-time high. How do I avoid paying so much in taxes on the sale?

Our bank keeps offering a physician loan with nothing down. We have enough for 20%. Is the physician loan still the better deal?

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